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Thomas M. “Tom” Regan

Posted By Ballard Sunder Funeral Home On February 24, 2023 @ 12:36 pm In 2023,Obituaries | 13 Comments

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Thomas M. “Tom” Regan, age 66, of Prior Lake, Minnesota, passed peacefully in the presence of family at his home, on Thursday, February 23, 2023.

A visitation will be held on Sunday, March 19, 2023, from 3-6 p.m. at Ballard-Sunder Funeral & Cremation, 4565 Pleasant Street SE, Prior Lake, as well as on Monday, March 20, 2023, from 10-10:45 a.m. A Celebration of Life will follow at 11 a.m. Family and friends who can watch a recording of the service at the following link: Tom Regan Service.

Tom will be laid to rest at Better Place Forests, St. Croix Valley, St. Croix, Minnesota, in the spring.

In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Tom may be made to:

YouthLink, 41 N. 12th St, Minneapolis, MN 55372, https://www.youthlinkmn.org/ or ROCK MN, 16511 Anna Trail, Suite E, Prior Lake, MN 55372, https://www.rockmn.org/donate/.

Tom was born in Mankato, Minnesota, on September 25, 1956. As a child, he was always happy; smiling and greeting everyone he met. He attended Loyola High School, where he enjoyed competing in speech (storytelling) and debate. In 1973, he also was elected Boys State Governor, the first from Mankato.

Tom attended college at Creighton University in Omaha, Nebraska, where he met and married the love of his life, Deb Wessel. He graduated with a BA in Sociology in 1978 and a law degree in 1981. After graduation, he moved to Minneapolis where Tom started his law career at Nichols & Kruger. There he was given his first tax litigation case and he was hooked. He continued his law career with Messerli & Kramer, eventually opening his own firm in 1987, working almost exclusively with tax litigation cases. That same year, he was named Minnesota Small Business Advocate of the Year by the Small Business Administration. Tom received many recognitions as a lawyer, but he was most proud of being named a Super Lawyer for more than 25 years, every year since its inception. It was easy to see why Tom received that designation. During his 41-year career, he represented everyone from small businesses to grandmas to celebrities with the same compassion and kindness. He ensured that they felt cared for enough to be able to sleep at night. Even after Tom knew that he did not have much time left, he worried about his clients’ well-being and worked tirelessly to make sure every one of them was taken care of.

Growing up in Mankato, Tom’s family moved to Lake Washington during the summers where he developed a passion for all types of waterskiing. That passion continued into his adult life; and, in 1992, he began to focus on barefooting. Though he had tried numerous sports, nothing had the thrill, excitement, and satisfaction of barefooting. He and his friends would head out at 5 a.m. before work to get the smoothest water possible. His love of barefooting led him to compete at the state and national level and to serve as a judge at many competitions.

Tom pushed the barefoot season as long as he could, starting in the spring as soon as the ice was out and ending in the fall with snow falling on his run. When the lake finally froze, he then switched to snow skiing and snow racing.

Tom also developed a passion for music while he was growing up. In college, he often performed folk songs of the time with his friend Dick Belatti. Tom’s love of music continued throughout his life. He renewed his focus on playing the guitar during the pandemic and got many hours of joy practicing and learning music theory.

Tom absolutely loved being a dad and sharing his love of the water with his son, Scott, and his daughter, Brianna. The family spent most summer weekends at Lake Washington where they enjoyed knee boarding, wakeboarding, wake surfing, sailing and air chairing. In the early morning hours on smooth water days, Tom also enjoyed barefoot runs with his “Chief Boat Driver” Deb while the kids enjoyed Grandma Regan’s ever-present chocolate chip cookies.

Tom loved following and supporting the passions of his kids and grandkids and shared everything they were up to with whomever would listen. He was especially excited that his granddaughter recently became a Daisy Scout so he could order all the Girl Scout cookies he wanted.

Tom’s legacy will live on in all those he touched with his infectious smile and clear joy for life, but especially in those he loved the most: his wife of 42 years, Deb; son, Scott (Ali) Regan; daughter, Brianna Regan (Kyler Chase); grandchildren, Emmeline and Nels; sisters, Fay Regan and Molly Regan (Conrad Osborne); sister-in-law, Carol Regan; and many other loving relatives and friends.

Tom was predeceased by his parents, Robert and Patsy; brothers, Jack, Mike and Pat; and niece, Shannon Weithers.

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Condolence from Bing & Sharon Solomon on February 26th, 2023 12:45 pm

Deb, may warm memories be comforting to you and your family during this difficult time.
We miss Tom’s smile and steady guidance.

Condolence from Mike and Anita Berneck on February 26th, 2023 5:37 pm

Deb,
Please except our sincere sympathy to you and your family.
Mike & Anita Berneck

Condolence from Nichole Paladie on February 27th, 2023 11:25 am

Deb and Family,
It was an honor to help care for Tom at the end of his life. Thank you for allowing us the opportunity! We are thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers. Bless you. Hospice of the Midwest Team

Condolence from Karol Hetland on February 27th, 2023 2:27 pm

Dear Deb and family,
We are so sorry for the large hole in your hearts. We will miss all those fun chats with the 4 of us on the porch, lawn, or driveway. They won’t be the same without Tom’s smile and sense of humor. We so enjoyed our trip on your boat last summer with you and having supper at Charlie’s and had hoped for lots more of those.
You will be in our hearts and prayers as always and are right next door if you need anything.
Mark and Karol

Condolence from Barbara Ogarek on February 28th, 2023 2:08 pm

Deb and Family,
Please accept my sincere sympathy for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. God bless.
Barb Ogarek

Condolence from Steve Marsh on March 1st, 2023 7:32 am

I went to grade school, middle school, high school and college with Tom. I will miss his great smile. At Creighton , Tom entertained all of his friends with his guitar and his singing. His performances in the Knothole were the highlight of the week.

Deb,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Condolence from Marge leiferman on March 1st, 2023 3:07 pm

Deb and family.

Know you are all in my thoughts and prayers as you grieve the loss of a wonderful husband and Dad. I am so sorry Tom and all of you had To go through this cancer disease. It’s just not right young man who had already suffered through a major stroke and his smile stayed with him through all of that.
Love hugs and prayers.
Marge

Condolence from Bob Coughlan on March 2nd, 2023 8:01 pm

Thomas-

Go with God! Greet your brothers and your parents!

Condolence from Sue Rapley on March 4th, 2023 6:53 am

Dear Deb and family,

I am holding you all in my thoughts and prayers. Tom’s smile and his wonderful disposition will be sorely missed. Hugs, love and light to you all.

Condolence from Jeff Lambert on March 5th, 2023 4:36 pm

My deepest condolences to the Regan family. It has been many years since I worked with Tom, but I will always remember his humor and his smile. RIP

Condolence from Ann Simmonds Wright on March 8th, 2023 10:01 pm

I went through school with Tom at the Catholic schools in Mankato. He was everything that was written about him. He was very smart, charming, kind, and always doing something interesting. I had the privilege of being one of the friends that got to watch him water ski. I was also lucky enough to hangout at the family house in West Mankato. First slot machine I ever saw. He was the best of men and he will be missed. Love and prayers to the whole family. Sincerely, Ann Simmonds Wright

Condolence from William A Vincent on March 12th, 2023 11:23 am

So sorry to hear this just now. Tom was the most ethical, knowledgeable , helpful and professional attorney I ever knew. And best partner I ever had!

William A Vincent

Condolence from Steve & Cindy Griesert on March 17th, 2023 8:29 am

Dear Deb and family,
Our deepest sympathy to you all. We will always remember Tom as a man with the utmost integrity, who had a deep love for his family and friends, and loyalty to his clients. This world is a better place because of him.

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