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The Calderara Family

Posted By Ballard Sunder Funeral Home On July 22, 2016 @ 2:22 pm In 2016,Obituaries | 17 Comments

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Jason, Betsy, Melody and Hawk Calderara passed away much too soon after a tragic car accident in Cannon Falls on Monday, July 18, 2016. They were a wonderfully loving family and will be missed by so many. A Memorial Service will be held in their honor on Sunday, July 24, 2016 at 3:00 PM with a time of gathering from 1:30 – 3:00 PM at Harbor Community Church; 5995 Timber Trail SE; Prior Lake, MN. Pastor Joey Frechette will preside. In lieu of flowers, memorials are preferred and will be distributed in honor of Jason, Betsy, Melody and Hawk.

On June 14, 1985, John and Janice celebrated the birth of their son Jason Michael Calderara. His nicknames that he was extremely proud of were “J” and “Peanut.” Jason was the oldest of three children, and he was the best big brother to Trista and Jessica. As a boy, Jason lived in New York and Tennessee before his family settled in Texas. Since he was a little boy Jason was always worried about others and could not stand to see others unhappy. His sisters and friends remember that he always tried to make them laugh, even at the expense of himself. Jason enlisted in the Army National Guard in January of his junior year of high school and attended drill weekends during his senior year. He proudly served his country before being discharged as a disabled veteran.

Jason then met a young woman from Minnesota named Jennifer. He and Jennifer were soon married. Although their marriage didn’t last, they always remained friends and were both wonderful parents to their son Nick. Little did Jason know that he was always meant to move to Minnesota, because it led him to the love of his life, Betsy Richter.

Betsy was born on May 18, 1990 to parents, Leslie and Suzanne. Betsy always had a bold personality and was so proud to be a unique individual. Her siblings often just shook their heads embarrassed by her, but Betsy was always true to herself. She grew up in Prior Lake. After graduating from high school she earned her Associate’s Degree and also attended a Life Training Program that changed her life. It was her roommate from the Life Training Program that introduced her to a handsome young man, Jason Calderara.

Jason and Betsy hit it off instantly. They immediately became great friends finding that they had so much in common. Neither of them was “traditional”. They both broke from convention and weren’t afraid to live outside the box. Their friendship soon grew into a deep love.

During their first date, Jason and Betsy were enjoying a beautiful hike around a local lake when suddenly a tornado appeared. They had to outrun the storm and seek shelter from the tornado. They both knew that if they could make it through that, they could make it through anything together. On October 5, 2013, Jason and Betsy were married. They were blessed with a beautiful daughter, Melody Pond Calderara, and were anxiously awaiting the arrival of their son, Hawk Ilion Calderara. Both children were named after important characters from their favorite TV shows. Melody’s came from Dr. Who. Hawk was to be nicknamed “Hawkeye” from MASH – a pun from Hawk’s first name and middle initial – Hawk I. His middle name came from the name of the town from Jason’s childhood and was a tribute to the one place he always called home. Jason and Betsy were extremely proud of their break from tradition and of giving their children names from their favorite TV shows no matter what anyone else thought.

They enjoyed spending as much time as they could together. They were always looking for fun adventures, playing games, and taking drives. They enjoyed watching movies and TV shows. Dr. Who, Stargate and MASH were a few of their favorites. Jason, Betsy and Nick enjoyed playing video games together, and they occasionally played Dungeons and Dragons too. No matter what they were doing, they always lived life to the fullest and were an inspiration to those around them.

Jason and Betsy had many interests, but family was the most important thing in their lives. Jason was so proud of his sister Jess who is attending Texas A&M. He was also thrilled to be stay-at-home dad, and Melody was certainly Daddy’s Girl because of it. He was the ultimate protector and peacekeeper for his family. Betsy was such a loving mother, and she couldn’t wait to meet the newest addition to their family.

On July 18, 2016, the Calderara family was in a horrible accident that took the lives of Jason, Betsy, Melody and baby Hawk. Their passing will forever leave a hole in the hearts of many. They will be deeply missed and remembered always by their loving son, Nicholas “Nick” James Calderara; parents, Janice Bortner and John Calderara, Suzanne (Bill) Brantly and Leslie (Marcy) Richter; siblings, Trista (Daniel) Brown, Jessica “Pooh” Bortner and Detonias “D” Swift; Alex Richter, Lauren Richter, Aaronn (Kaitlin) Richter, Gretchen (Nicholas) Anderson and Nathan Brantly; grandparents, Faith (Jerry) Hawkins, Keith (Sharon) Leonard, Dorothy Calderara, Ronald (Patricia) Bortner; Leslie & Gloria Richter, Barbara Davis, Bobby Mohn, Betty Brantly; nieces and nephews, Hailey Calderara, Bradyn Vanlandingham, Eldrych Richter, Wynter Richter, Levi Anderson; other loving relatives and many dear friends.

There to greet Jason, Betsy, Melody and baby Hawk home to Heaven are their grandpas, David Calderara and Robert Brantly; and Aunt Irene Richter.

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Condolence from Martin Bracewell on July 22nd, 2016 3:06 pm

We shall never forget this precious family. Their troubles are over, together in Paradise. “Now may our Lord Jesus Christ Himself and God our Father, who has loved us and given us eternal comfort and good hope by grace, comfort and strengthen your hearts in every good work and word.”
-2nd Thessalonians 2:16,17 (NASB)

Condolence from Anna Frechette on July 22nd, 2016 4:05 pm

I wish I had the words to comfort you and ease the pain, but at times like this there are no words to take on such a job. During this time, please take care of yourself…surround yourself with the company of friends & family. Spend time with people who can nurture and comfort you during these difficult times. Hugs to you; and in time, May the pain in your heart be replaced with peace. God Bless you all.

Condolence from Dawn Mazur Scruggs on July 22nd, 2016 5:37 pm

I never got the chance to meet this precious family, however I know her mother/grandmother. I am beyond sorry for the tragic loss of this family. Each family/friend of this family will be in my prayers. May each of you find comfort and peace in the hours, days, weeks, months, and years ahead of you.

Condolence from Eileen Kownslar on July 22nd, 2016 7:26 pm

Our prayers are with your family at this most heart breaking time. We are with you all through this journey. God is with you.
Take care my friends.
Dan and Eileen Kownslar

Condolence from Sarah Wharton on July 22nd, 2016 7:30 pm

Thoughts and prayers for your whole family

Condolence from Margie on July 22nd, 2016 8:44 pm

I am sorry for you guys lost. It is so sad they were taken way to soon. Praying G for the,who family and Nick Jennifer and Detonias Swift to.

Condolence from Patty Pals on July 22nd, 2016 9:39 pm

I am Jen’s Cousin-Patty, met Jason’s mother & sisters last night & I didn’t know what to say! Saying I’m sorry doesn’t seem to be enough! Prayers go out to all of you involved. If there is anything my family can do to help ease the pain or if you need anything for the the funeral services please let us know!
You all have been through so much, we are here if you need anything.

Condolence from Janice on August 10th, 2016 5:34 am

It was so very nice to finally meet you. I see your comments on Jen’so statuses all the time. It’s nice to put a name with a face! Thank you for your support. And again, I apologize for leaving the room. That beautiful little one is to be celebrated and rejoiced!!!!

Condolence from Tory on July 22nd, 2016 10:30 pm

Jason- I haven’t talked to you in over a decade….but you were one of my only friends in school and I’ll miss you dearly. You were taken much too soon.

Condolence from Lucinda Adams on July 23rd, 2016 1:10 am

So sad that Betsy will no longer be “popping in” to services at TRC with her lovely family! Little Melody was a cute little reflection of her mom, so sad we never got to meet Hawk, and Jason was the love of Betsys life! Will be glad to hug them in the afterlife 🙂 I pray that God will comfort you all in this loss. Love you guys!

Condolence from Joleen Brenner on July 23rd, 2016 9:39 am

I met the family for the first time July 17th. I am saddened and hold their family and friends in my prayers. Their time here was cut off too quickly but at least they will move forward together.

Condolence from Kelly Caleb on July 23rd, 2016 2:52 pm

Sending thoughts of light and love to your entire family from ours.

Condolence from Brigid North on July 24th, 2016 10:27 am

My condolences to you, Suzanne and your family. You have been in my thoughts and prayers, through this tragedy. God bless you!

Condolence from Maggie Harpestad on July 24th, 2016 10:28 pm

I meet jason years ago.. we became friends he always had a smile on his face, then I met his wife who was just like jason an was always smiling as well. .. I got to see melody an hold her I remember what he had said”she’s daddy’s little girl”… My thoughts an prayers go out to both family’s who lost jason Elisabeth melody an baby hawk…

Condolence from Michelle and Ted Ewer on July 24th, 2016 10:55 pm

We have been so saddened upon hearing about this tragedy. Our hearts ache for all the loved ones that lost this beautiful family and will continue to be in prayer for you. God’s grace and peace be with you always. With love from our family to yours.

Condolence from d mullins on August 8th, 2016 4:16 pm

So very sorry to learn of the terrible losses your family has suffered.
I wish to share comfort from the Bible with grieving family members at this sad time.
The Bible teaches that one day in the near future our Creator, Jehovah God, by means of the ransom sacrifice of his son, Jesus ,will reunite us with our dead loved ones by means of a resurrection right here on earth in paradise conditions that will be filled with peace, happiness, and perfect health for everyone..
These texts are found at John 5:28,29; Psalm 37:9-11,29; in your Bible.

Condolence from Daniel brannon on October 12th, 2016 7:17 am

Tell me it’s not true! One of my best friends… Also why didn’t I see a mention of his love for Def leopard and Bon Jovi. I finally get to a point in my life that I can look him up and instead I find his obituary… Seriously wth. Also his favorite books were xanth

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